Ooh, tis time that kills and make up for all great things! Well as I have personally experienced and observed many long term relationships seemed destined to end sooner or later. Why? As it seems the intimacy has fizzled out over TIME. Why? mostly because it is TIME that takes it away through our work, our kids, our sleep, our friends, our family, commercialised events that just does not give us anymore TIME for each other. Meaning time taken to cultivate our sexual relationships with our partners.
Why does SEX get boring and monotonous over TIME?
Why have we always had our same favorite sexual position and with it, its over in minutes?
Why over TIME intimacy has become a Chore?
It’s all because of TIME!! The less time over the months or years we take away from cultivating our sexual relationship, building it so ever strong with understanding and spontaneous fun has been the unseen crime we all commit……until it is too late!
This comes back to our natural tendencies, our animal desires? Well at least for the men.
As we all know…the sexual desires of a man is uncontrollable as if their little brother below has a mind of its own. Understanding this we know that this sexual appetite will always need to be fed. However with women….that’s another story altogether.
We all know that women are sensitive and requires psychological attractions for them to raise their sexual desires, unless sex was their objective then they will be on the prowl like a hungry tiger. But women of the world today are more inclined on their new found successes, power, money, looks and career. With this, yes TIME is of an issue as well as interests as a result of their new objectives.
SO HOW DO YOU KEEP THE FIRE BURNING?
How can you win over her mind and become the object of her desires?
How can your man be more interested in you then the porn he watches? Have his eyes truly looking at you during sex as oppose to his eyes closed replaying the moment in his mind from the porn. ( We all know this has happened to you ;p )
Right the answer is…..
You need time a good formula that will keep the fire burning and most likely keep both parties wanting more…therefor allocating more time to each other. With this you won’t have to worry about each other anymore.
* Clear understanding of each others desires.
* Spontanuity
* Role play
* Dare to try new ideas
* Tools - costumes, lingerie, toys, romance kits, lubes etc
You can’t always be the most romantic or even have all the sensual ideas to keep it spontanous. Just like food you need a menu! So Romance Kits is the best answer to your problems.
How does these games sound to you?
* 52 Weeks of Passionate Sex ( Select from a deck of card and perform )
* Speak Love Make Love ( Boardgame )
* Romantic Rendevous ( just keep dating your partner…remember those first few dates? add spice to it, just cos you’re maried doesn’t mean you can’t date each other )
* 52 Weeks of Naughty Nights; or
* 12 Romantic Dates…
Well there are so many to name….you can just imagine how much fun you will both have together! It is so much easier if you both give into a game. There will be time’s when each of you dictate your desires and there are times when it the spontanous requests of the game!
I may not be a Love Guru like Mike Myers but hey….if I can make your life more interesting, that’s all I wish.
SO MAKE THE MOST OF IT…..TIME IS OF ESSENCE!
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